‎Don’t Ever Cheat Back When A Man Cheats On You — Says Actress Ese Eriata

Former big brother house mate and ‎Actress, Ese Eriata has sparked reactions online after advising women not to retaliate with cheating when betrayed in relationships.
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‎This was disclosed In a viral video message via her Facebook handle, Ese urged women to focus on healing, self-development and personal happiness instead of seeking revenge through another relationship.
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‎Acorrding to the video, Ese said “So, when one decides to lack self-discipline, instead of you to find a way to heal, focus more on your career, yourself, your hobbies, your very close friends, finding yourself; you want to reduce your spiritual wealth just because one decided to be poor spiritually.”
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‎The media personality warned women against becoming emotionally vulnerable because of heartbreak.
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‎“Na man hurt you, no dey go meet another man,” she stated. “Another man no supposed to be a shoulder to cry on, because in penis to be a dick to ride on.”
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‎Ese Further stressed that her advice was not about being a “pick me” woman but about protecting one’s peace and dignity.
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‎“If the thing too vex you, leave the person make you go start your life again. If you no fit take the nonsense wey the person dey do to you, no go dey do say you want cheat back,” Ese added
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‎”I encouraged women to invest time in hobbies, friendships and personal growth rather than revenge.”
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‎“You no get hobbies? You no get friends? You and your friends no dey format to do sleepover? Buy popcorn make all of una dey chop dey watch film till morning,” she said.
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‎According to her, many women end up making worse choices while trying to get back at cheating partners.
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‎“No dey carry your vulnerable states dey meet another man because you fit go meet frog. I dey tell you. You leave toad go go kiss frog,” she warned.
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‎Ese concluded by telling women to “calm down” and remember that you are “too clean for that.”
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